How Do You Know If You’re In The Right Relationship?
Have you ever wondered if you were in the right relationship ? Have you ever wondered, “Are there other people in the same situation? Is this a normal part of everyday life in a relationship?”
Most of us know that maintaining a relationship isn’t easy, but we rarely wonder if we’re in the right relationship. It’s a tough question, but there are some signs that can help us judge if we’re in the right relationship. These signs can help us determine if we can continue to grow with our current partner.
Every relationship is unique. The secret to living and growing with the person you love is to learn and understand, respect and deal with your differences, while maintaining equality between you. All of this translates into strength in the relationship.
1. The relationship is based on a sense of security, not fear
The Achilles heel in any kind of relationship for man is fear. Anxiety is a sign of insecurity in a relationship and can mean that we are in a relationship that won’t work. If we’re in the right relationship, we shouldn’t have any sense of fear coming from the other person. Instead, you should feel things that are the opposite of fear, such as security, joy, and steadfastness.
When you’re in the wrong relationship, the exact opposite is true: insecurity and fear overwhelm us. If you find yourself in a relationship where you constantly doubt your partner, your own commitment to him or her, or your worth as an individual, you are probably in a broken relationship; at the very least, some major changes must come from both of you.
2. You trust each other sincerely
This is an important pillar of a good relationship: trust. The feeling generated when two people who love each other have complete trust in each other is indescribable. This needs to be in place between the two people before your relationship even starts, because to enjoy a trusting mutual experience, it’s important to develop that trust before actually getting into a relationship with your partner.
If you find yourself in a situation where you are constantly hiding your cell phone and your messages from your partner’s sight or where you feel any kind of mistrust, it is very unlikely that the relationship will end in a positive way. will continue.
3. You sacrifice things for each other
We are not talking about an extreme sacrifice, but about small daily sacrifices, such as making compromises when making plans, to ensure that both your and your partner’s needs are met.
Love means knowing how to share and give the best of yourself for the good of another. If you don’t think this exists in your relationship, you’re probably not with the right person.
4. You have your own identity
We have explored in other articles how easily emotional dependence can develop in romantic relationships. This is a sign that you are in the wrong relationship. Sharing your life and your heart with someone doesn’t mean you have to lose your individuality or identity. For a healthy relationship, you have to be your own person within that relationship.
In a strong relationship, both partners maintain their individuality and respect for each other, without either losing their essence. Each person should be allowed to keep his or her hobby and communicate with friends and family without feeling guilty about it. If both of you respect your differences as people, you are in the right relationship.
5. Even confrontations are positive
In good relationships, quarrels, however passionate, always retain an essential ingredient: mutual respect. If your confrontations remain respectful, the end result will always be positive and there will always be a solution for both.
If there are dramatic, negative, and toxic conflicts in your relationship, you really need to think about whether it’s worth it. If intense feelings often override common sense and concern for the other person, you could be in the wrong relationship.
